Dayna Anne
Clark, born 23rd
May 1997 to 28th
December 2008 (aged 11).
Dayna
was a clever,
conscientious and beautiful
looking little
girl.. She was popular with
the old and the young.
Dayna
was very active.
She
had never been ill in 11 years.
She loved
dancing (especially ballet and did it from the
age of 3),
badminton, gymnastics (since the age of 3), played violin and attended
the
church Rainbows, Brownies and then the
Guides.
She also did very well
in school
and wanted to be a Vet when she was older, asking our Vet hospital at
age 10 if
she could work for them for experience.
In February
2008,
Dayna passed her Royal
Academy of
Dance Ballet grade 2 with distinction (very difficult to achieve) and
also her
grade 6 in gymnastics.
She was dedicated
to them.
Dayna
loved to travel and visited at least
11 different
countries using their languages , their currencies and their cuisines. The
last holiday she went on was April 2008
to see
Paris and the Mona Lisa
which she
had just studied at school and of course Disneyland Paris.
This
was a last minute holiday, the shortest
and the most memorable one.
Still unsure
why we even booked it!
Dayna
turned 11 on May 23rd. She
had started feeling
‘unwell’ in
the March and the doctor’s said it
was viral and
then that she was
growing up.
She had lots of tests
done
and we were assured that the headaches and sickness in the morning was 'nothing
sinister'.
On
the evening of 26th
May, Dayna collapsed at Guides.
The
emergency Doc recommended a head scan
the following day in Stirling Royal Infirmary. We
did this and the cat scan showed a
‘small mass’ at the base of the brain.
The
next day we were to go to Sick Kids Hospital in
Edinburgh for a more
detailed MRI scan.
What
we were told was to change all of our
lives
forever.
Dayna had a DIFFUSE
PONTINE
GLIOMA (inoperable brainstem tumour). The
shock will never be shaken off.
Our brave
little 11 year old daughter was so brave and
grown-up about
it.
She had to undergo
having a
radiotherapy face mask made and 6 weeks intensive radiotherapy and
chemotherapy.
This was to affect
Dayna
in many ways, mostly physical.
She was
quickly on crutches and even quicker in a wheelchair losing the
movement in her
right hand side.
She was the bravest
most inspirational person I have ever known. She
had bad weeks and kicked herself back
to
life to do what she had to do
in her precious time with
us.
We lost Dayna 3 days
after
Christmas 2008.
We miss our angel so
much.
This
is where we want to thank 4 dedicated
charities who
helped Dayna and also Matthew and myself through the most horrendous
time in
our lives, in Dayna’s memory.
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